May 5th, 2005 Update
Just a little over a week ago, we emailed you with an update on our
progress to travel and pick up baby Aida. At that point in time, we
were completely unsure of how fast the process would move or how long
our wait would be. We are no longer unsure! Today, May 5th, we received
our much anticipated call from our agency that told us that the Kazakhstan
Ministry of Education had granted us approval to travel. What this
mean is that on May 18th, we will leave the US on a flight that will
take us half way around the world to bring our little Aida home.
We rejoice in the fact that we will be able to hold her for the first
time when she is just a few days over six months old. And that we
will get to bring her home when she is still very much an infant.
This is incredible because in Kazakhstan, a child is not available
for adoption until he/she is six months old. God has certainly been
working in great and mighty ways throughout this whole adoption.
As we prepare to travel, we ask that you would join us to cover the
next two weeks of preparations, and the next two months of travel,
in prayer. There are many things that we are going to need to accomplish
in the next twelve days that will be impossible if God is not guiding
us. We will probably be sending out a more detailed prayer request
list in a few days when we gather our wits and know what still needs
to happen but for now, we have two immediate requests.
The first is that we will still be having a garage sale this Saturday,
May 7th at our house. We have been blessed with many wonderful and
generous donations and now our biggest prayer request is clear skies
and many shoppers! Our other main concern right now is that we have
to book our airplane tickets ASAP and we are running into trouble
in using the frequent flier miles that have been given to us. Please
pray with us that God will work all the details of our flights out
so that this burden is removed from us completely.
We thank you all so much for continuing to lift up our adoption in
your prayers. We would not have been able to do this if it wasn’t
for such an incredibly awesome God and great friends and family who
love and support us in this decision. Thank you.
May 8th, 2005 Update
God is so good! If you remember, we last wrote asking if you would
be in prayer for the garage sale we were having over the weekend.
Well, we’re happy to say that once again God has thoroughly
blessed us! Our grand total for this fundraiser came to over eight
hundred dollars!
During the days leading up to our sale, we received some wonderful
donations from many of our good friends (a special thanks to the Sunseris,
Hasserots, Chretiens, Hawkins, and Quans!). In addition to the new
donations, we still had many items left over from our last garage
sale that many of you helped provide. As we set everything out Saturday
morning, we were completely blown away at how much we had to sell.
Aside from all of the great items we received for our garage sale,
God really came through with bringing the people as well. We weren’t
sure how successful we would be since our house is much less visible
than the last location we used, and since we got he add in the paper
late. Too our surprise, we didn’t have a dull moment from 7:30
till 2. Even after that, people kept trickling in while we were cleaning
up, continuing to spend money and help us get closer to our goal.
What a great (and tiring) weekend!
With the garage sale behind us, we are now focusing on all the things
we have to do before we leave for Kazakhstan in a little over a week.
The following is a list of prayer requests and concerns that we still
have. Would you join with us in asking God to intervene in each of
these situations?
• Plane Tickets: As we write this letter, our plane tickets
are still up in the air. Although we have been given frequent flyer
miles from Kevin’s grandmother, we have not been able to secure
tickets with them. Please pray (especially on Monday) that we can
either find a way to use the miles towards our tickets or come up
with the $3,700 needed to purchase the tickets.
• Packing: It is very hard trying to think of everything that
we will need for two months. This is especially challenging since
we will need to pack items for Aida as well.
• Making Arrangements: We have a lot of things left to arrange
as we try to take care of every detail with our house, bills and jobs.
We have already had so many people offer to help, but is still overwhelming
trying to preplan for all the menial tasks and chores that we don’t
usually think about.
• Health: It is crucial that we stay healthy during this last
week. Our fear is that with all the running around we’re doing
(and consequent lack of sleep), our immune systems will be down. Please
pray that we can stay free of any colds or flus so our energy can
go into our preparations.
• Visas: As soon as we received our invitation to travel, we
had to mail off our passports to the Kazakh embassy so they could
process the application for our visas. We are now hoping that our
visas and passports make it back to us in time.
• Finances: This is both a praise and a prayer request. Through
the generous donations from our friends and family, we have now raised
over 93 percent of the money needed to complete the adoption. However,
because our call to travel came quicker than we were expecting, Kevin
is loosing a few additional weeks of pay and we will not be able to
do the additional fundraisers that we had previously been counting
on. At this point, we are still a couple thousand dollars short (not
including the airfare that we might also have to pay for). Please
pray that God will continue to work miracles in this situation.
The last thing that we are trying to get in order before leaving is
our e-mail update list. If you would like to continue receiving these
emails (hopefully every other day while we’re gone), then you
don’t have to do anything. However, if you would like to be
removed from our list, you can simply email us with your request.
Also, if you know anyone who might want to receive our updates, please
give them our address and have them contact us ASAP so we can begin
sending them emails as well. Remember also to check out our website
while we are gone so you can see the first pictures of Aida once we
arrive. www.thelockwoodhome.com
We greatly appreciate all the support and prayers that
we have gotten from everyone in the past months. We couldn’t
have done this without you.
May 21, 2005 Update
We are
so excited as we write this letter because we have so much to share!
Most importantly, we are happy to announce that on Friday at 2:30
p.m. Kazakh time we met our baby girl for the very first time! (We
know many of you are dying to see her so you can download the attached
picture before you go any further.)
We arrived in Astana at 11:00 a.m. and were quickly
taken to our apartment where we are going to spend the next month.
After only a half an hour, we were escorted to the baby house and
waited in the lobby for what seemed like an eternity. Finally, we
were ushered into the director’s office where our coordinator
and interpreter spent several minutes talking about us. After the
director asked us some questions about our jobs and our desire to
adopt, she picked up the phone and made the call to have our baby
brought in. A few minutes later the door burst open and there she
was, grinning from ear to ear and bursting with excitement. We both
started crying right away as we reached out for her and took her
into our arms. It felt so wonderful to finally hold in our arms,
the child who we have been dreaming of for so long.
After we met her in the director’s office, they told us that
she needed to be fed so they took her back to her room to eat and
left us in the waiting room. As soon as we were left alone, we asked
our translator why the orphanage director had been calling our baby,
“Alueshka”. She told us that it was a pet form of her
name, “Alua”. At this point we were very confused because,
as many of you know, we had been told that her name was Aida. (Later,
we questioned our coordinator about it and he said that Alua’s
mother’s name was Aida and must have been accidentally put
down as the baby’s name.) This shook us for a while and we
scrambled to figure out what we would call our sweet little girl.
We decided that we really wanted to keep her first name of, “Alueshka”
as her middle name. We also felt the desire to give her a new first
name, so after lots of thinking and discussing, we came up with
the name Kaitlyn Alueshka Lockwood.
Kaitlyn Alueshka is the sweetest and happiest little girl who completely
melts our hearts every time we are with her. She is just now six
months old and is petite compared to many other babies. She has
the most wonderful, kissable cheeks, beautiful brown eyes (with
a hint of green), long fingers and toes and a full head of black
hair. We have now been able to visit her at the baby house two different
times, and each have been completely miraculous experiences.
We have so much more to share about all the things we’ve experienced
in the last few days, but we’re trying to keep these e-mails
short, so if you want to read more (and see tons more pictures),
you can check on our website which will be updated shortly. Just
click on the following link or paste it into your browser; www.thelockwoodhome.com/adoption
We hope to be able to send updates and download e-mails every day
at 7 a.m. and 7 p.m. pacific time. If you would like to write to
us, just use this address and we will get your message within 12
hours. Also, if you know someone who might want to receive our e-mail
updates, please have them e-mail us and we’ll be happy to
include them as well.
Thank you for your continual thoughts and prayers. God has been
so gracious to us by not only giving us a daughter, but also by
providing so many encouraging friends and family members.
May 23, 2005 Update
We’ve been so blessed in the last couple days to get all your
e-mails. Thank you for the encouragement! We are trying to write
back to all of them, but sending e-mail from hear is very hit &
miss; sometimes they go fine, but often they bounce back for the
strangest reasons. We’ve found we just have to keep trying
over and over again till they finally work.
Since we last wrote, we haven’t been able to visit baby Katie,
but we have been experiencing some of the culture. On Saturday night,
we went out of our apartment for the first time without our interpreter;
a huge step for us! The reason we ventured out was because we had
met another American couple (Jay and Kenda Gardner) who were adopting
from the same orphanage. They were about to catch a flight home
and had all kinds of leftover food and items that they gave us.
It was so nice getting pointers from someone who had already done
it all. If you want to see pictures from their trip, check out their
website; www.littlegardner.com.
On Sunday (which is Saturday in the U.S.) we began the day with
a wonderful time of prayer and scripture reading. After that, our
friends Jen and Jesse came over for a while to see our apartment
and exchange clothing (their Anelle is a little larger than Katie
and we had each brought some large and some small outfits). It felt
so strange having company over, but at the same time, it made our
apartment feel more homey.
Later in the day, Erken and Dinara (our coordinator and his translator)
picked us all up and took us on a tour of Astana. None of us were
expecting anything more than our daily trip to the baby house, so
this was really a treat. First, we went to a tall monument that
overlooked the city (very similar to the Seattle Space Needle).
About twenty stories up was the observation desk. It was inside
a giant sphere with transparent panels (from the outside they looked
like gold, but inside they were giant plates of glass). It was wonderful
seeing the city and surrounding areas from a birds-eye view.
After the monument, we drove around the city and saw all the new
development. The government has lots of money (apparently from oil
exports) and are constructing hundreds of new buildings, parks,
etc. Once we finished the driving tour, Erken and Dinara took us
to a complex that reminded Sarah and I of Epcot Center at Disney
World. It was a large building filled with exhibits recreating cultures
from around the world. We saw replicas of Athens, Lady Liberty,
China, and even a rodeo. Inside this building was also a wonderful
aquarium that we went to. It had fish from all over the world (many
we had never seen before). Apparently this aquarium holds the world
record for being the furthest away from the ocean.
Following the aquarium we walked outside and went to an enormous
model of the country. As you walked around the paths, there were
replicas of important buildings and industries in that area. Even
though it was not to scale, it gave us a great understand of the
geography and culture of Kazakhstan. Erken and Dinara did a wonderful
job of explaining everything to us and helping us to learn about
the country and its history.
On the long walk home from our big day out, we got a chance to talk
to Erken (through Dinara) and learn more about his line of work.
It was nice having the time to begin a relationship. Erken is a
very professional, wise coordinator and we feel 100% confident in
his ability to help us adopt Katie.
Right now we are very excited because it is Monday and we are headed
to the baby house this afternoon. Right now it is raining which
means that we might be able to spend our two hours with Katie inside.
This may seem strange, but whenever the orphanage workers allow
the children to go outside, they make sure to bundle them up in
lots of clothes and big hats, even if it is 90 degrees outside!
This means that except for the few moments in the director’s
office, we have not seen anymore of Katie than her cute face and
long fingers. Hopefully we’ll also get the chance to put her
on the floor and play with her. There will be lots of fun new pictures
to share in 12 more hours.
Speaking of pictures, we have updated our website with lots of new
things, including pictures from the first three days. In another
12 hours, we hope to post the rest of the pictures since we’ve
been here, so check back tomorrow (7 a.m. PST).
Thank you again for all your prayers and support. Without all of
you, this process would be very lonely. We can’t wait to put
up more pictures so you can share the Joy that Katie brings us.
May 26, 2005 Update
It has been a few days since we last wrote an update letter. As
soon as we got here and set up an internet account with the local
dial-up, we realized that sending e-mail from overseas is somewhat
spotty. When we write e-mails they almost always bounce back with
the strangest and most obscure reasons. We finally decided to just
send most of our outgoing e-mails through another e-mail account
(klockw243@aol.com) since they go through more often. Luckily, we’ve
been receiving all your e-mails at our normal address so feel free
to continue writing to that account. We really love the encouragement!
If you have been on the website lately, you’ve probably read
the same information about our e-mail problems as well as the note
saying that we’re only going to be posting updates on the
web now. While that is still true, we have had many people request
that we explain some of the procedures and customs that we have
to follow in Kazakhstan, and that we give a timeline of how long
each step in the process will take before we can bring baby Katie
home with us. With that in mind, we decided to write this e-mail
(we hope that it works when we try to send it). We’ll keep
posting our shorter daily updates on the website with the pictures,
but in this e-mail we want to give some more in-depth information.
The big question that everyone seems to have right now is “when
does Katie get to be with you 24/7.” This has also been a
big question on our minds so we made sure to ask on the second day
we were here. As it turns out, we will not be able to bring her
home until the end of the 15 day waiting period which is after our
court hearing (a total of 30 days is required by the Kazakh government).
We had heard of many couples bringing their children home right
after their court hearing, but, as our coordinator explained to
us, since Astana is the capitol of Kazakhstan, everything is done
by the book.
During the 15 day waiting period, we are only allowed to visit
Katie for 2 hours a day, Monday through Saturday. We hope that towards
the end of the visit we can convince the orphanage to let us come
more often, but as of right now, we will be on the same schedule
until the end. Because of this, we would appreciate your prayers
that our court hearing will be held immediately following the first
15 day bonding period so that we can start the 15 day waiting period
as soon as possible.
Once we have fulfilled the entire 30 day requirement, our coordinator
tells us that we can leave Astana right away. In fact, he said that
we will probably pack up and check out of our apartment in the morning,
then go pick up Katie at the orphanage and head straight for the
airport. From there, we will fly to Almaty where we’ll spend
two days filing our paperwork with the U.S. Embassy and taking Katie
to get her “western” medical exam. Finally, we will
be on our way home (minus the 20 hrs. in the air and the 14 hrs.
of layovers). We are really looking forward to stepping off the
plane in San Francisco and introducing Katie to all of her new friends
and family!
Another question we have received from many of you is, “why
do they make the babies wear hats and bundle them up so much?”
Honestly, we really don’t know either. From what we have heard,
the orphanage workers are afraid that the babies will catch colds
if their ears are uncovered or if they’re wearing anything
less than two or three layers. This has been quite comical to us
since many days it is 80 degrees outside and they will still put
Katie in a snow suit! As you can imagine, she often gets too hot
because they also tell us that we have to keep her in direct sun.
To our amazement, this trend seems to be a part of the Kazakh culture;
every time we see babies in the park or the market, they too are
covered in thick clothes with a full hat on their heads. We can’t
wait until we get to decide what our little girl wears (or doesn’t
wear).
We hope that we have cleared up some of your questions and have
given you a clearer picture of where we are in the process. Next
time we send an e-mail to everyone, we will try to write more about
the culture, the city and its people. In the mean time, we hope
that all of you are doing well and are enjoying spring back in the
U.S. Thanks again for all the kind letters of encouragement; they
have really helped us stay connected with everything that’s
going on back home.
In Christ,
Kevin, Sarah and Katie
PS: We will continue to post daily updates and pictures on the website.
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